I am very greatful for all the advice. First, Jak thank you. You gave me some wonderful advice and I appreciate being able to vent my concerns to someone that. I am sorry that anyone here took it for more than that. Right now I am feeling very pressured in to this and no I am not ready for that. We have many other issues that need to be resolved and he needs to figure this whole thing out with himself and his personal issues. I agree with what seems to be the common opinion here that this would only cause more issues since there other factors in our marriage that are causing me some concern. Maybe it would not bother me so much if everything else with our marriage was great, but it is not right now.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
