If you don't like the idea of having sex with another man, then what is the problem?
The answer is "No, H." It's as simple as that.
Then you start looking for things that will work in your situation--for the both of you.
Is he badgering you to do this? Or insinuating that the only way to fix things is by acting out this fantasy? If so, then your real problem is that your H is a bully and not so much that he won't have sex with you.
