I actually do know....sort of. What he has told me and our sessions with the therapist. The worst part of that is the same thing I told him years ago... before we got married. Which was " I know what I want, I know who I am. When you figure it out, I'll be right here." Word for word. Maybe that is the deal. Sh*it I don't know. What I do know is this whole thing sucks and I sometimes just want off the ride. I miss me. I obviously can not help him figure this out. He has to do that for himself. I am not in the picture. In the other picture is me... It is easy for me to say, but not so easy to do.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
