I liked what you said lillie. And then what.. A few minutes a few hours of excitement. My big if is and then what? I am trying to work on my marriage right now. I am on this rollercoaster that someone else has dragged me on and I did not want to ride. Does not really matter because I am on it now and I have to just figure out how to bear with it until it is over. Sucks!! I do know that I will do anything to save my marriage and avoid anything that will jeapordize it. He says this will help. It will help him feel more excited it will help him feel like we are still us... As much as I love sex... and I do... If we are not focusing on making our marriage work, that is not going to make the situation any better? I am analizing myself and my life again. Please keep the feedback coming. I am lost. Thank you for the responses so far.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
