and I guess I should clarify the fact that he wants to watch me have sex with another man..Not another woman. I know that men have fantasies about that all the time ( 2 women). Even though I can't say I have a fantasy about my husband doing the same with someone the same sex. I do realize that this is normal. To fantisize about that. But do men really think about watching their wife with another man? I know I don't want to watch him with another woman.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
