That is my fear. What if I give in and say I am willing to give into his "fantasy". I know he says that that is what he wants. That it would help and it is exciting to him... But what if that fantasy played out is more that he bargained for. I am not sure it is even something I can handle. Our counselor said to not be close minded and to listen to each other. I am listening and can not say I have never fantasized about sex with other people. But the reality is I have never with anyone I was not in a committed realationship with. I am trying to remain open minded but I am a bit worried. Like I said, we are already trying to work on other issues in our marriage. Living out a fantasy at this point scares me on what damage it could do. He knows that I am willing to do anything to try to save our marriage, but this seems to me to be off the edge.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
