It is not so much that it distresses me. It is surprising to hear this come out of my husbands mouth. I listened to what he was saying and even asked for some clarification on what it is he wanted. It just seems odd that the man that has had sex with me less than once a month for the past 1 1/2 years to have even said this. He know that I have a higher sex drive currently than he does. I am not obsessed with it, I just want to more than once a month. Maybe 2-3 times a week would be nice. He has even admitted to having some difficulty with himself. He says that this is a turn on for him. I do not necessarily think that that is wrong, we all have our fantasies. I guess with all of the issues that we are trying to work out right now, It is hard for me to understand.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
