So H is out of town for 4 days...I'm not stressed about it though...6 months ago I certainly would be! Moving forward...
One thing that my H can't stand (and really, me either) is my negativity. I have been working (maybe slacking some) on not being negative. But....lately I feel that he perceives so many things I say as negative when I simply see them as opinion
For example, we invited his brother and girlfriend over for dinner last night and were talking about our anniversary (we got married by the JOP and 10 months later had a "real" wedding) he said I try to get two anniversaries when I reminded him that "we haven't celebrated any...okay we went to dinner once...oh yeah we had one weekend get away" he said we went to see Titanic one year which I reminded him was for his b-day... anyway, we started talking about the Titanic, which he really wanted to see and liked, I said that it was a good movie but there was so much hype that I expected much more and if we would have seen it when it first came out I think I would have thought differently...and from that he says "your so negative."
So help me out here...is that really negative??? I have started to feel like I should just say everything is great otherwise I will be considered negative...any suggestions?
