Had a good weekend (until last night) we had a BBQ for MIL's 70th birthday and I cooked lots of new stuff and H gave me several compliments...even said maybe I shouldn't go back to work, not seriuosly though!
But last night he was watching his show and I was watching my in the bedroom, I came out on a commercial and he said the D7's stomach hurt. Now this happens frequently but goes away really quick. I commented that she does this all the time and he got pissed and said she was in tears to which I commented sure, but offer her cookies or cake and she would be fine. He told me to shut-up and that really got me pissed so I said something to the fact that she does this all the time and he said she didn't want anything except you and you go fly off the handle. I commented as I was walking away that I didn't fly off the handle but I could and slammed the bedroom door.
Were fine now, he came to bed a bit later trying to be "mad" overexagerrating so I would think he is funny. I am still bitter that he told me to shut-up because I think it is disrespectful. Sometimes I think he is trying to make me feel like a bad mom but it is really just my own mind feeling guilty and like I am a bad mom...ughh!
I know this was bad dbing on my part...sometimes, in the moment, it is just hard to think in DB terms...
