By the way, I did actually go shopping yesterday and pick up a couple of tops (h's suggestion!) I am now able to sub teach and he knows how I stress about not having clothes to wear, and he hates it! Anyway, I was at the check-out and the lady made a comment about the color of one of the tops being pretty. I said yeah, it's a bit different for me but my H told me to buy something other than black or brown (this was even before the bomb) so I'm brightening up my wardrobe a bit. She said that I was a smart lady because so many women don't listen to their husbands and they end up losing them...wonder if she knows about DB??????