Just a quick post before I go to bed...I have to add another goal before I forget it:
Stop with the little comments regarding the past bad time!
For example, he brought his laptop home last week...I hate his laptop, really what he was doing on his laptop so when I see him on it I sometimes get these bad feelings....anyway, we have a wireless network setup at home and if you read email on one you can't access it the other. My brother sent an email and he let me know so I could read it. Well, I don't like/know how to use the fingertouch mouse very well and he came over and showed me how to do what I was trying to do. I of course made a smart azz comment about not knowing how to use his "private" computer. To which he responded, how private can it be sitting out here in the open, I could put a password on it, do you want me too.
Oh, I did remind him about the little trip we are taking and he hasn't said that he isn't going to go yet...still one more day but I think I am just going to act as if he is going!