Seroiusly, follow the advice posted. Only you chose when to stop. The OW will temporarily fill the void. You are working on you. That is great! Keep focused on yourself. Keep reading, praying, growing. In the end, no matter the outcome, you will be a better person.
M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5 no children Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(