Thanks for your reply. I will get a copy of that book ASAP. This w/e was very hard for me. Learning that OW2 is back in picture after I thought we were having more positive and (in my own STUPID mind) encouraging interactions set me back tremendously.
I'm starting to doubt myself. I know PATIENCE and all that, but how much humiliation should we stand for before we lose all respect for ourselves? How much s*** do we take before it's time to let go and give up? I know that no one can really answer that for me, It's up to me. Does anyone have any pearls of wisdom or even encouragement that "it will get better".
I am starting to believe that maybe it is too late for us cuz his heart and mind are triple deadbolted with no key in sight.
