I'm so glad I could help. Some days, I read that passage 4x / day. It is so true for me. Like you, I have learned so much about myself and grown. Only now, is my XW able to start talking w/ me, and confirming my positive changes. There is a long road ahead, and she reminded me again last week "ILYBINILWY". Don't ask questions that you don't want to know the answers to.


M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5
no children
Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later
First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(