Not much to report except that this morning I left X phone message asking if it would be possible for him to watch kids this w/e cuz I have to work both sat & sun (it's my w/e with them). I left for my appt with C and when I got home He had left message that on fri nite he had to work (he works 3rd shift and does not work fri nite unless he does OT) so if I picked them up fri nite when I got done with work, he would pick them up sat morning when he got done then sun if I could pick them up when I got done with work. When I left message this morning (he has dial up internet, but has VM, so I usually try to call when I know he will be on computer, which is about 80% of the time IMHO) about watching kids this w/e cuz I had to work, I did say that I would really appreciate it if he could but that I understand if he can't if he already had plans. When he left me message and said he could watch kids and didn't mention that he already had plans or anything, I took that as a GOOD sign that he isn't seeing anyone right now
I know not to get overly excited about the fact that he "readily" agreed to watch kids on my w/e cuz he had informed me months ago that he was not at my beckon call to watch kids on my w/e if I had plans that did not include kids or even if I have to work just as I was not at his beckon call to watch kids on his w/e. The first time he asked me if I could watch kids for him on fri nite on his w/e (this was after OW2 was no longer in picture, probably 4-6 weeks ago (from about Mar or April there was OW1 then from about June til about Aug there was OW2)cuz OW1 or OW2 would watch them) I told him "sure, cuz that is extra time with kids for me"
Xs Aunt brought kids to me after I got done with work Mon nite and I had asked her if she could watch them for me if X couldn't and she said she would be happy to. So I had my bases covered in case X had plans, which it sounds like he didn't I'm not sure if events as of late are signs of improvement in OUR R or if it just means that being civil for kids sake is all that has transpired. What do ya'll think? Considering that our D has been final for about 12 weeks now and neither one of us has even mentioned it to the other I just don't know what to think.
This was longer than I thought, I guess I had alot more to say than I origionally intended. Any words of advice or comments would be greatly appreciated.
God Bless and Prayers to All!
Maria
PS. Please pray for my Mom who lives in Corpus Christi, Tx. I talked to her tonite and she said that they are under evacuation notices. She is going to go to my Aunts house who lives about 45 miles inland but it sounds like even they are in evacuation status. Thank You
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