Chrissy: She was showing me this stuff because she shares a lot of things about her job. I find most of it very interesting--a lot more interesting than my run-of-the-mill work day. She had me review various books about child custody recently because she was deciding which one(s) she would recommend to various clients. This is one of those things she does which shows me that she appreciates my opinions.
There was no clandestine reason she was showing me the documents. I just thought it was interesting that db.com was one of the websites. Heck, a reference to db.com is sitting no less than 10 feet from her every night in bed, as a copy of SSM is located in the bookshelf in our bedroom. If she's going to find it, it's there.
Heck, it would be pretty easy to find me here. One of the websites I buy my coffee beans from uses my nickname on its mailing labels, so she could google that, I'm sure. Hairdog shows up on the second page of google results, referring to this board.
This is my group therapy. If she finds it, fine. But she won't get me to stop posting.