Why should she be allowed to keep throwing his support of his children from his first marriage in his face as if it is a sin he has committed against her. Those kids are his she should take pride in the fact he is not a slacker that he takes care of his responsibilitys in life. This should make her feel safe in the knowledge he will never abandon his children she has with him. And lets face it using something someone loves against them like it is a bad thing is just mean. Point blank she came into this marriage knowing he had children and responsibilities to others.
Just lurking here and Chrissy I wanted to say How much I appreciated your comment about this. I guess it makes me think about some things in my own sitch.
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
