Its great you have a friend. Male or female emotional support does not always equal EA. It at times equals emotional support. Its up to you to keep it in that perspective.
Now your wife. Can you say jealous or what. But in her need to not appear jealous she fixated on the money. Little words like your girlfriend did she give you a blow job for that ect screams jealousy.
That said I am with everyone else in that you gotta stop taking her crap. But I say call BS to her little tiraide.
Send her a email listing just what you told us.
Mrs HD. After some thought and while you are of a clearer mind I would like to point out that though yes I did incur this amount of debt back in 2001. It was handled in this mannor and paid back in this manner. So this is no longer a issue As of our current debt I believe that it was brought on by a tax credit oversight and I can not be held responsible for that aspect as I do not file the taxes. Again the debt incurred on this date was a tax issue by additional income earned on your part. And after the tax credit we recieve for my children and there support equaled this amount. Again not a aspect of I am completely at fault for. But while thinking this over and the fact that our debt seems to amount more from tax oversights and misplanning I feel maybe we need to consult a professional tax adviser/accountant in the future to ensure our taxes are well thought out and we do not continue to run into these problems.
God if you do it post a copy to all of us so we can cheer for you.
Your wife is a piece of work. I at times can relate to her. That almost scares me. But please stop letting her disrespect and degrade you. The reason she does this is really irrelevant at this point what is relavent is stopping it.
Just my thoughts which are on sad level for you today. You seem to nice to deserve all this [censored]!
