Quote: But there was no reasoning to be done last night.
or any other time. You cannot win this argument, so don't even try. It's not about money. You don't have to justify one darned thing, to yourself or to her. People spend money, life costs money.
The next time she invites you to jump in that pit and go at it with her WALK AWAY. Do not stick around and listen to insults. Just like I told my bf I wouldn't be under the same roof with him and alcohol.
I also agree with Mrs. NOP-- no more booze-- it's expensive!