Quote: My wife came across the receipt for my $15 lunch with N. She asked me about it, and I told her what it was. She tore up the paper, threw it on the floor, and said, "this is what I think about that." Followed by a one hour tirade that alternately focused on what a selfish ba$tard I am, how she needs to get away from me, how stupid I am, why didn't I check with her before spending this money, how I am going to bankrupt her, what a bimbo N is, did she give me a BJ for the $15, how she's going to draw up the divorce papers, and...that was just the first two minutes.
Hairdog,
This is emotional abuse... period.
You just don't sound like the kind of bloke who would put up with that, and for the life of me I'm not sure why you do? Would you let a stranger lay you out over coals like this for an hour? Why then, would you let your wife???
It sounds like you have hit a nerve with her over N... jealousy perhaps?
She needs help for her anger management problems...
