I wonder about this too Honeypot. I bet the trend would be that HD people think men and women can't be "just" friends and LD people think the opposite. My H (LD) works with ALL women, (he is the only man in the office). This bothers me but he says he does not see them anymore than coworkers/friends. Hmph. Now myself as a HD I always see men in a sexual way (to a degree) That's my nature. I don't have any male friends that are just "my" friends. We have couple friends and I would consider those men my friends but it's different. I rarely see them outside a couple's situation. Still, I may think of those men in a sexual way ("wonder what he's like in bed") that sort of thing. I feel a little guilty considering their W may be right there but I have a hard time stopping myself. I'm hopeless