My W back not to long ago was saying the same type of thing that it was ok to go outside the marriage. When it really came down to it though was that she was just trying to hide behind those words because she knew that I would not go out and do those things. So it was some other weapon that she could use. I will tell you she is full of it. She absolutely cares wether you go and do that or not. I would call her on that. Let her know that you know its a BUNCH of BS. My W now tells me that she is so happy that I never did take her up on that because it would have devastated her.
