Thanks lil.
I have also thought further about the whole PA thing. Would I really do that, or am I just kind of using it as an experiment, to see how far she'll go in putting up with it? If the latter, then I am not being truly transparent.

Oh, what was it that Nopkins used to say about affairs? Something about "sense of entitlement" and something else. Anyone remember? Beuller?

Hairdog, who is really thinking about sending that "dog story" to his W and telling her that he wants to discuss it tonight.