She's still hung up on that, I'm afraid. Seems to me that would have changed watching the storms destruction. Or maybe that triggered the "grab the brass ring" feeling harder.
Talk about what she expected in life when you met and how the other house and such is more important to her than you are. Or, better phrased, whom/what did she marry?
I think the likelyhood that you were financially less secure when you married than now. What's changed?(Outside of the economy which has hit some will death blows! H retired 5 years early. Was very depressed. I got tired of picking him up and giving him understanding.)
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
