Quote: She said I should be paying 2/3 of this or that, and all of the van payment, etc. And she said, to the extent that you don't make enough to cover all of your responsibilities, you can borrow the money from me at prime rate.
This is insane. Are you sure you guys are married? Let's see.... she won't have sex with you, she doesn't feel "safe" with you, and she wants to lend you money and charge interest. It sounds like she sees you as (at best) a roommate, or just another business partner.
Quote: "If you do that," she fired, "you'll have to use your own money. You'll probably have to get another job. If it's that important to you, fine, but you'll be giving up your time with the family so that you can afford your trysts."
More concerned with money than with you having an affair? Again, sounds like she's seeing you as just an acquaintance. I don't think you'll go through with it (you're not the cheating type, I don't believe), but I'm not sure if she'd care, as long as you paid for the hotel room with your own money. Or is she just bluffing?
