first .. I think you come across as a cool, quick witted, funny guy. You appear to be a nice guy.
You didnt deserve how she treated you. that was a sweet move you made. The girls around here are flipping out.
I would like to point something out though.
We did have a talk this morning. The usual pattern ...I left without saying "I love you." She called, all hurt. I told her I was too busy. She acted even more hurt, and said she knew I was upset with her, why didn't I want to talk with her .....I told her that I had certainly gotten to the point where I had given up any expectations of what SHE would give to me. She hung up. She called back. Knowing that we weren't going to get anywhere unless I said I was sorry for hurting her, I apologized for the hurtful way
Boom. right there is where you lost your power again. she tested you and you caved. I know --it shouldnt have to be this hard... and if you want to go elsewhere that is your perog. But if you want things to change... you cant cave. Let her hang up 500 times. better yet if she hangs up dont answer again for the rest of the day.
She knows when she is acting Sh!tty. or she wouldnt call back and apologize. do not let her transfer. You are apologizing because her feelings are hurt when she acted like a B the night before? Dude you let her act this way.
This is your crucible. Even the ladies are saying it.
Quit being a NICE guy. at least test it out, let it ride so to speak.
You cant care if she is mad, or if things progress. It is not your job to be 'nice' to fix it. It is hers.
