Read your post last night right as I was going to bed. It was sad to read that you could do something so romantic so not just lets have sex and she could not even give enough to take a soak and have a drink with you.
My H would never do anything so sweet on his own.
After reading your post this morning my first thought was wonder how this lady would react if you just suddenly started living your life around her. Meaning just GAL You doing for you.
I can see hairy picking up the phone calling wife and saying hey I have got some plans for this evening so you will have to figure out dinner for you and DD. And sat when wife says Hairy here is your honey do list you say well you may have to do some of it yourself because Joe and I are going golfing/fishing/camping.
Hairy to me it seems this woman has you by the balls. You are her housekeeper, cook, errand boy, and childs primary care giver and financial partner. You steam clean carpets while she downloads music. Gosh she has a tough life. You really need to break this cycle Hairy. You need to stop letting her take such complete and utter advantage of you. If you need to let go of your idea what a wife is. Maybe she needs to let go of the idea that a husband is a servant. Just my thoughts and hopes that you have a great day.
