Sounds like I need to swing by and take you on that search for a nymphomaniac, that might appreciate a sensitive, romantic man who just wants to feel closer to his partner. That is not too much to ask. Why do we stay with these women?? I have told my partner that I want a seperation. She immediately replied that she loves me and would do anything to keep the family together. Her actions, however, have been nil. She shows no affection, makes little physical contact, has not really done anything. Other than not being outwardly angry with me for going hunting , golfing or fishing. No difference. So, after giving yet another chance for her to understand the risk her lack of affection, touch and sex has had on our shakey union, I am again looking for an apartment to move into, and doing the mental checklists of things to get arranged. She (like yours) simply doesn't "Get it". I do not think she ever will, I've lost any real hope in that. We're in the same boat, my friend. CD