Hairdog, Sounds like she is definitely detaching/escaping from the M. My H is obsessed with music on a good day but when we are having R problems he is immersed in it. Downloading all day on the computer. Playing with full-size iPod and iPod Shuffle (yes, he has both). Burning discs. Reading music related material. You get the idea. A fairly healthy escape, he could be out chasing women No, that has never been his style Even when we were separated he avoided ow, just stuck to music full force. I, on the other hand, did not have healthy outlet for my escapism and thus, turned to others (men particularly). Not as healthy for sure. I guess it could be worse than your W's iPod.
