I agree with K. You tend to lose your wonderful M/V edge with the drinks. Maybe be careful about topics when enjoying a few?
The arguing naked idea is a hoot! I've heard about it before, but you're the first to really put it into action. I imagine that your feeling too vulnerable to do so is informative about where the 2 of you are in the new R development. Just be sure to focus on developing new healthy habits rather than let the old destructive ones seep back in.