Hi Martha! I finally caught up w/reading your whole story and just stopping by to say 'WOW'
Couple of silly observations: your bday is 2 days b4 mine! (isn't it great to be a crab?) same age as me also!
and I get to be a first time g'ma soon also! how are the babies doing? (didn't happen to catch any details on the second one, ie. name, weight, did delivery go ok??)