How great is that. Really happy for you and it sure helps me to learn from what happened with you.
Nahhh, you're no dork. Keep posting helpful things. It sounds like that book sure helped also.
Can you let us know this..... When your H was really cold and he said no chance, did he actually believe there was and did think of you? Did he really believe there was no chance or did he not want to lead you on, etc?