Without getting into too many details...I told XW that I was going to give her space and time and that maybe 3-6 months without me is what she needs. Maybe she actually needs 30-50 years, I don't know, but I said I was going to give her this time without me; no movies, dinners, etc. I know, it really shouldn't matter; what difference could it make? I just wanted to verbalize that I wasn't responding in an angry manner or anything. Really the time is what I needed too.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt