I wanted to followup my earlier lighter post by stating the obvious: this awful DBing rollercoaster isn't fun to be on longterm. I fully understand and accept a persons's decision to step off.
I've benefited so much from your knowledge, especially your reflections about similarities b/t your 1st D and my sitch, whether it is about beeming positivity, parenting stuff, or watching the WAS date or mingle with OP. I've taken to heart the deeper unconditional nature of DBing, and your humorous way of describing your frequent interactions w/ XW really helped me to see how to be simultaneously sensitive, strong, and playful.
Hope you're still thinking about Vegas, as I'd love to meet the man behind the posts and share a few cold ones with you. If that doesn't work for you, know you're always welome in FL.
