I've been here for 9 months. It's been great. With you I found support, understanding, guidance, constructive criticism, and strength. I told myself that friendship with my XW was enough, but it isn't. There is too much love for my XW. I have no real reason to knock DBing, but I just can't do any of this anymore. I fared better my first divorce when I didn't have any of this. I've kept the love alive, but the hurt alive as well by being here. I'll miss the comradarie I found here, and I suppose in time I'll be back, but I just want to put this behind me. There isn't hope after divorce. Only hope that I can recover and move on.
Take care all. It's been fun and don't get me wrong...helpful (I think).
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
