Seems like you had a great outing with just you and the boys! I think successful GAL work requires lots of such events to help prove to oneself that life can be great without the WAS. Kind of proof in the pudding that altho one might want the WAS, one truly doesn't need em.
Tattoos are all over the place on women today, aren't they? A bit easier to see in FL this time of year. I find myself picturing the person at age 75 with the tattoo. I'm not against them, just curious about what happens if their attitude/interests or body shape changes. Must have been a PMA boost to have her show you, though!
Glad you had a good time @ the Keith Urban concert. I really like his music and he is a great musician. (The following is solely for UD's enjoyment) He's so hot, I'd do him.
Seriously, he is a good looking guy and attracts women like flies to a turd. Too bad I wasn't there, we could've been wingmen and tried to get in some trouble w/ the ladies.
Funny thing about that tattoo on the small of a woman's back. You know what it's called? A Tramp Stamp. Loses the sex appeal for me.
I'm w/ Gabe. I don't have a major issue w/ tattoos on a woman as long as they are discreet and not super visible. I guess I really love and appreciate the female figure and the softness that goes w/ it. Some how tattoss ruin it for me. But then, there are a lot of guys who like it and who am I to judge?
P.S. Did you get her number? I can just picture you asking to see her tattoo, you devil.
This girl was maybe early 30s and had on a very revealing camisole-like shirt that essentially opened in the front. The tattoo was obvious, it was an elaborate vines and butterflies thing that essentially winded its way across her back. I only said "nice tattoo, very elaborate". So no, I didn't say...want to show me your tramp stamp? he he he. It was interesting because that opened up a fairly long discussion. I found out about where she got it, how long it took to do, that she was from out of town and won her tickets on a radio show, and that her friend just loved Keith Urban. If she weren't married I might have hit on her more. She did keep turning around and talking during the show when it would get quiet.
If you are curious, yes, I called today to tell my X about the concert. She also dropped her cell phone in some water the other night and I wanted to see if she had a plan for having one when she goes to her concert on Friday. Yes, I'm a worry wart. She's this teeny little thing going to the big city by herself. I can get a little paternal.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
I've been here for 9 months. It's been great. With you I found support, understanding, guidance, constructive criticism, and strength. I told myself that friendship with my XW was enough, but it isn't. There is too much love for my XW. I have no real reason to knock DBing, but I just can't do any of this anymore. I fared better my first divorce when I didn't have any of this. I've kept the love alive, but the hurt alive as well by being here. I'll miss the comradarie I found here, and I suppose in time I'll be back, but I just want to put this behind me. There isn't hope after divorce. Only hope that I can recover and move on.
Take care all. It's been fun and don't get me wrong...helpful (I think).
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
I understand exactly what you are saying here, honey.
You still have my email address, right? Drop me a line, or I'll give you a call. (Interestingly enough, this is where I was at when SO had the sudden 180...)
You are surrounded by love, good vibes, blessings and gratefulness my friend.
I don't know what to say, buddy. I hurt with you. What ever you decide to do, know that you always have a friend in me and those of us here in this community.
I'll miss you're wry sense of humor and how well you play along with my unusually bad jokes that I come up with on these threads. I'll miss not only Mr. Fixit, but also Mr. Oxymoron, as well. I think you single handedly coined the concept of Patient Pursuit. I'll miss you're brazen flair that you exhibited every time you would push the envelope w/ your XW. And then, come here to post about how you "screwed up", only to have Bruce threaten your life w/ a writing utensil; simultaneously advising Gabe and I how we need to drop the rope and be patient.
You have added so much to this small community of ours, and like I told Bruce when he said "goodbye", I'm a better man for having met you and spending time with you in this electronic living room we call a bulletin board.
Take care, my friend. Godspeed and may the road always rise to meet your feet.
Wes - I understand where you're coming from, but I'm going to miss you so much. You've helped me through so much (and who am I going to flirt with now!!!). Please take care of you and keep in touch. My email is dancingwithtime@yahoo.com. Feel free to keep in touch.
I'm not against them, just curious about what happens if their attitude/interests or body shape changes. Must have been a PMA boost to have her show you, though! 
