I have been trying to follow your sitch along with several others. It seems you are at a place I would like to be with my Ex H and I am working very hard to get there. How, may I ask did you get to the point where all of you went to a movei? My Ex would consider that a "date" and would not do it. There is OW and I don't know how much he tells her if and when we do see each other. We had dinner a week ago, and to be honest I don't know why or how he decided to do that. I enjoy my time with him, but I find if very difficult knowing there is someone else he is sharing his life with also. Julie