Quote: Wes, take the example of the OM in my sitch. A long time "friend" of my ex, had a thing with her some 20 years ago. They kept in touch over a long distance over they years, sometimes meeting up when he was in town. She meets me, falls in love and marries me. Still keeps in touch about once a year with the OM. Well, long story short, she's now living with him, as he was there when she started confiding her marital woes to him and he picked it up from there.
Bingo! That is my sitch word for word (the only difference is the years--about 13). That is why it isn't wise to confide your marital woes to a "third party" or cross the line of being "just friends." It SUUUCKS!!
That is why it isn't wise to confide your marital woes to a "third party" or cross the line of being "just friends." It SUUUCKS!! 
