Thanks for that. It was my feeling that she wanted me to go, but I didn't want to overdo things if she would prefer I would back off. Sometimes girl-speak can be difficult. If I was asked that question I would say either yes or no. Actually I don't have expectations. This is a major deal for any woman and I would want to be there for her even if all I ever wanted to be was friends.
Sam, AOS is "acts of service"= doing things for someone. It has to be a secondary love language for me because in addition to PT I show my affection in that way.
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