I have been trying to catch up on your thread. You post to mine a lot and I appreciate it very much. I think I need to start reciprocating a little bit more often. I have been on here so little lately that I am losing touch with everyone.
I read about what you told ex regarding the baby situation. I think the fact that she came around so quickly after that discussion means no harm was done. It probably made her feel wanted. Take the John Meyer situation as a positive. At least she is so desperate for some sort of interaction that she is resorting to fantasy land. Stop snooping though. It is only going to make you crazy and cause you to send negative vibes her way. They sense them in a heartbeat.
I will keep up with your thread in the future. Things look good for you. You have been moving forward that is for sure. I know this waiting game stinks, but things could be worse.