Nicely done! Thinking about making 'love deposits' is a good way to consider it. I believe it was John Gottman's research that found the ratio of 5 good events for every 1 bad one to a be key component of successful Ms. I imagine that ratio has to be boosted a bit if one has a depressed WAS. Maybe being D and not living together makes the bad events more controllable, and frees one up to energize and plan for the positive ones.
I admire how you're staying loose and positive around her, Wes. That sounds like a lot of pressure on you to perform well when on so many outings. I think its great that she's initiating so much contact. She's very interested in you, and definitely coming to get her love bank deposits.
