I'm trying to help Wesley in hopes I might help myself. We all grasp unrealistic expectations, then are disappointed when they are not met.
And from my perspective, while Wes' situation is certainly unique, his inability to step back from the picture and look beyond the frame instead of focusing on each individual colored dot, is a commmon malady for all of us.
So if we can nuture Wes through his trial by ex-wife, then perhaps the unspoken hope we all hold is not too unrealistic.
But it requires on your part Wes, perspective, soul-searching, time, goals (realistic), a life outside of your own head and the dreaded PATIENCE.
