Wes, Gabe is dead on the money w/ his post. Huge allies in her K's. And, she can't stay on the "You treated my K's like sh!t" routine if they like spending time w/ you and want you and XW to reunite.
As far as my sitch, thanks for your thoughts on my thread. You are on the money there yourself. I need to let go completely and I'm not doing it. I guess I need to truly accept the sitch for what it is. It is really hard to make oneself think that "she probably isn't coming back". And, you're right I need to be okay with that.
