Quote: I know what you mean when you say "I can't do this anymore", but I doubt your X will. Her response will be "Do what? We aren't doing anything. We're being divorced." Being divorced really doesn't put us in a position to expect anything of our X.
La-esperanza makes a very good point here. The WAS' head isn't in the same place as yours. If you did say those things, it would probably be because you want a reaction from XW. You probably wouldn't get the one you wanted, anyway. I empathize with that feeling of having no control and just accepting that WAS will come back or they won't in their own time. We all want what we can't have but we have to decide to be happy w/o it or with other things. That's why GAL is so important.
Now...what's this?! Another Minnesotan? Julie?! Join the party...and you too la-esperanza!
