Well said, Lou!!!

Jo, you really do need to slow down and put the focus back on you, not Andy.

It's funny that Lou mentioned his D. I see myself wanting to mother you too. You're not much older than my own D. I love it when you're happy and getting on with your life. When Andy starts messing with you, I want to beat the crap out of him!!!!

Jo, you're such an creative, feisty and wonderful woman and deserve so much more happiness in your life than you've had.

BTW, you're still a baby.....stop worrying about your age. I'm in my 50's, have lots of dates and love my life. My XH and I split up at the time my D left for college so suddenly I was alone. It was mind boggling at first and it took me a few months to figure my life out. Now, I can't believe how much my life has improved. If I fall in love, great....if not, I'm happy with me!!!!