Qoe - regards Andy needing to have a woman, I have wondered that myself sometimes, but that doesn't make sense this time because he was still with OW2 for easily a month before he started coming round here and we'd held hands, he'd made sex jokes, kissed me etc etc while he was supposed to be with her.

He didn't tell her until after we'd slept together, so it's not as if he was on his own at the time. She was completely unaware of what was going on and he could have kept his R with her if he had wanted to.

Still, there's something that makes me uneasy. Maybe it's just because of what he did last time and now that is undermining my trust in what he says. I'm also thinking that since he's not initiating sex, he might just have thought after he broke up with her, 'help - I don't want to be with Jo after all', or perhaps he just liked her sex better than mine and that's why he doesn't want to, because he would rather have it with her.

Maybe on the other hand, I am just scared and thinking too much.

Jo.