(((((I am so sorry about your awful day.))))))

It is 8:00 pm where you are? You need to call it a day. You need to go to bed. You don't need to be thinking about any of this stuff any more. I think you have had a really long day. Get things with DD4 situated and start to wind down for the day.

This is just a really bad day. Who knows you may be right about everything, or you could be wrong. If you are right, you will feel the same way tomorrow. Take care and talk to you soon.