Jo,

I think you need to "Act as If" everything is going to be OK. When I do that, it takes me further than I ever expected. Negative thoughts are creeping into your head. Don't let that happen.

Also, trust what he is telling you as the truth. I think he is being sincere. Don't give him a reason to do what you are scared he may do.

What do you got to lose, really? Let's just say he is dragging you along. What--you'll lose three more weeks. Does that really mean anything compared to the time you have already invested. I know you are afraid of getting hurt again, but you can't live the rest of your life protecting yourself from something that may never happen. Trust that he has learned something from this whole ordeal just as you have. Think positive thoughts, think positives thought.....and remember time will heal all the wounds eventually.

Just the way I see it from afar.