And Jill, where ever did you get the idea that I'm a 'nice' girl!?
I'm Greek, remember, and we invented sex. It comes from the Greek word Eros - erotic love.
Mind you, after everyone reads my horrible book, they will realise I'm not nice That's why Andy keeps coming back for more, and in fact, he's as X-rated as me (my X-rated X, lol, that's funny) so really we don't stand a lot of chance to have a tame R!
Jo, My best friend from highschool was Greek. I loved her family as they were so much fun to be around. There was always lots of cousins, aunts & uncles, hugging, kissing, cooking, yelling, etc.
Yes, I know they are a very passionate group!!!! Honestly, I don't know how I would have gotten through my teen years without her family.
AND.....I DO NOT HAVE A RAGING LIBIDO!!!! OK, maybe, I do.....just a little!!!
Gabe, if I find your libido, can I stick it back on!?! LOL
Kevin, ah, that made me laugh! You poor people!
Jill - you're the one that plays topless table tennis (or whatever it was, I can't remember - so you DO have a raging libido, and why not, you're a modern woman!). And yes, you're right. I do cook, hug, yell and make love a lot. Andy doesn't mind the hugging, ML, nice food etc but he can't stand the yelling which is one reason I'm on here
- I have had to learn how to sip tea daintily and argue without arguing, and the art of not throwing plates when angry, LOL, or start shouting Greek obsenities when he has annoyed me.
Actually folks, my libido has fallen through the floor I don't feel much like Dionysus atm, or any other Greek God I think it's because my R has been so up and down and lacking in romance, that it's difficult to get excited about sex.
You guys on here can help me out by continuing this raunchy discussion
Call me old fashioned and conservative (if you want), but if I was in your shoes, I would be ready for an episode or two of making love. Not that I have anything against wild, crazy sex, but you've been waiting a long time to re-establish things with your X and if it were me I'd want passion, but to be able to feel love as well.
Maybe sometime soon you'll be wined, dined, romanced, coddled, cuddled, swept off your feet, and then ML, rather than just literally swept off your feet and thrown on the bed without preamble.
BTW, if we are talking about libido, In my siuation, I need to stay indoors if the wind blows.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
Well, let me put it this way, if I didn't have medical problems, I would be an everyday kind of a girl, but because that's not physically possible - I am a 3 to 4 times a week girl
Andy is roughly a 2 times a week man, but sometimes 3 if he's really up for it - that's why he told me once that he 'deprived' me in the M!
I actually initiated our first ever time together, as we had already been dating for 6 months by then and I would have been waiting around forever if I had left it up to him!
And yes, I can still do it on beaches if requested, even without the mood. It's just difficult to get emotional about it when I haven't got the mood, and I like the emotion. It's romantic!