You are one insensitive sonofagun to have written something like this and then come back and say, Wha...? What did I say?
If you had ever bothered to read an HDW's thread, you would have already deduced that being an HD female in this society is often a lonely road to travel. There are tons of HD women out there--in fact, the majority of my friends are HD--but the fact remains that the message we are bombarded with is that "men love sex and women tolerate this from their mates". We are in the unique position of being Every Man's supposed dream while absorbing the message from our spouses that we are "too much". This causes no end of questioning ourselves. You don't have this problem. As far as statistics go, you have the comfort of knowing that many thousands of your male brethren are right smack dab where you are.
I realize that you are in search of one of us so called freaks, but a word of advice:
When you find yourself in a bar, chattin up the ladies, I would refrain from saying, "So..........would you classify yourself as a freak of nature, cause that's what I'm after." I think it will getcha nowhere fast.